Over the years, I’ve had a lot of people ask me for advice. As a result, I’ve learned some things, and I want to pass them along. If someone sees you as their mentor, friend, or spiritual overseer and comes to you asking for your advice, there are some important things you should know.
1. DO realize your influence. Just by asking for your advice, chances are pretty good that this person looks up to you and reveres you. You probably have a great deal of influence with them, so treat it respectfully. Realize they might be ready to act upon any advice you give them, so don’t take that lightly and just blurt out something without seriously considering your answer first. Merriam-Webster’s dictionary defines advice as “an opinion or suggestion about what someone should do.” Emphasis on opinion. A person comes to you because of your experience, wisdom, or relationship with them—and hopefully because they know you care about them.